Problem with connect mysql databases of remote

I’m getting error with connect remote mysql database. Firstly;

1-) I use windows 10 machine and my remote server also windows 10 machine.

2-) My database at locale at remote windows machine with root.

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Also I CREATE USER user but again ı have a problem. How can ı fixed and connect remote database

Please help me?